If you are truly unhappy with your life, and with the way things are going, I whole-heartedly believe that it is your decision to stay stuck. Your life can be better and you can start getting the things you want. The world isn’t going to magically start making your life better when all you’re putting into it is complaints, bad energy, and a negative attitude. You get what you give. Changing your life requires insight into what’s making you so miserable. What is it that you want? Find someone who has that, and ask them what they did to get it. Or perhaps you actually need to get rid of something that makes you feel bad. Many people believe that adding things to life is what will make them happier, when in reality it’s subtracting something bad that will actually make a difference. Listen to your gut instinct – it’ll hardly ever steer you wrong.
I just get so – not upset – but so frustrated when someone is constantly complaining about how shitty their life is, but doesn’t do anything about it. They repeat a vicious cycle and dive further into self-hatred. It may be because I’ve always been drawn to a self-actualizing life, but I really do believe that the answer to a problem is to either a.) learn to accept it, or b.) stop complaining and start doing something about it. I understand that clinical depression and anxiety is a factor that can debilitate helping yourself. If this is the case, there’s an answer to that too though. I’ve been there many times. Through medication and weekly therapy, I have been able to combat those issues.
That’s all. I may add more to this later but feel free to comment/criticize/discuss in the comments below (if anyone actually reads this… lol).